Wednesday, January 14, 2009

It seems...

that 2009 will be a long and winding road at Casa Johnson. DAM will be coming home on Friday. They managed (well The Peddler demanded) that she allow them to take a chest x-ray. As we could have guessed, it came back with spots on her smoke filled lungs. I met with the Dr. yesterday and he told her that he wanted to do a Cat Scan to determine what the spots are. Of course she told him no. We really can't blame her. She weighs 85 pounds and probably wouldn't survive chemo anyway. The Dr. took me outside and told me to tell her she couldn't come back to our house unless she does the Cat Scan. Talk about putting me in the middle. I told him my hands were tied. There was nothing I could do. So she has signed herself out against medical advice and is returning home. I'm not quite sure how I feel about this. We've been down this road twice already. The Peddler's mother and my father. Pretty unfair, but like the saying goes "who said life is fair?"


7 comments:

Kim said...

i'm sending hugs and prayers your way! you definately have a lot going on and you've been so wonderful thru it all! miss seeing you! going to try and sign up for class on saturday!

Born in the year of the Dog said...

Buy her carton after carton of cigarettes and let her smoke herself to death. That was also my suggestion on how to hold the Russians but no one paid any attention to me then. Hope all goes well at home. I know this is not easy. But her wishes are essentially my 98-year-old Aunt's: no doctors, no hospital, no medications. However, she also signed a form requesting that everything in the world be done to keep her alive. Yikes....they can drive us crazy.

sherry said...

I am so sorry this is not getting any easier for you. Sending lots of good thoughts yur way and see ya Sat

Little Black Scrap Cat said...

I'm so sorry, Kim. But you're right...your hands are tied. You have to respect her wishes. My thoughts are with you.

And on that other subject, try posting a comment to my blog and I'll see what happens. The last one I found from you was on the Xmas books. Nothing on the horses..... I'll let you know.

Lindsey said...

I am so sorry this year isn't starting off right with DAM. If you need anything at all I would be more than willing to help. I am thinking and praying for you guys

Tina(Taken over by her daughter, Nicole) said...

Prayers from Texas for ya!! hugs,t

jen byard said...

We're praying for you and Rick! Hoping for you to have peace in all of this...